01

Treat the change as real information

You do not need to debate whether the change is inconvenient enough to count. If the current plan no longer fits, that is enough information to pause and reassess.

02

Use the three-question reset

  • What changed?
  • What still truly needs care today?
  • What would make the next hour safer or steadier?
03

Reduce in the right order

First remove optional tasks. Then shrink or defer flexible tasks. Next seek help with necessary tasks. Preserve medical needs, basic care, safety, and recovery space as much as possible.

04

Make the next decision small

Choose one next step and a point to check again. You do not have to solve the rest of the week from inside one difficult afternoon.

A reset can be successful even when the new plan is to stop.
Put this into practice

Begin with the capacity you have today.

The free two-page Capacity Check-In helps you choose a mode, name what matters, and adjust without starting over.

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